Attaining eighty years is still a landmark in one's life. In the traditional south indian brahmins, this landmark is celebrated by the children. It is possibly the only function where the birthday boy and his spouse (that is, if he is lucky to have her by his side) bless the invitees, save the few older persons, from whom they seek blessings. If the birthday boy has a wife living, they once again renew their marriage vows, looked upon by amused children and grandchildren, and even great grandchildren. Such celebrations are few, since both husband and wife don't survive when the husband reaches eighty years. Some are unfortunate, in not having their children celebrate such an event. But that is the way of the world!
Shri Gopalan, my father and Rukmani, my mother were fortunate that they celebrated the sadabhishekam with their children making all the preparations. They were bathed in the holy waters of the Cauvery and Ganges Rivers in front of everyone present.
What lovely memories are embedded of this happy occasion!
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